A 20 years old lady from Anambra state is seeking for a sincere advice about what is Aunt told her about dating men from Abia State in Nigeria.
Below is what she wrote.
I’m 20 years and I’m in 100 level in university. I’m from Anambra state. I have been in a 2-year relationship with my guy now. He is good to me, loyal and caring, although he doesn’t have money.
My problem now is that he is from Abia state and my aunt has warned me against having anything to do with any man from Abia state or Imo state because she says that they are not honest people. I believe she thinks this because her sister had a bad experience with someone from one or both of those states.
The other challenge I’m having is I keep wondering what if I stick with my boyfriend and he becomes rich tomorrow; will he still remember the time I stood by him through dry seasons?
My aunt recommended this other guy and he seems to like me. He is from Anambra too and he is rich and ready for marriage. Though we haven’t met but I want to think it over, so I don’t make mistakes.
If I marry him, will he love and care for me and stay loyal to me like my boyfriend does?